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The Quantum Love Quiz

Adapted from Quantum Love by Dr. Laura Berman with permission.

Think about your general attitudes and behaviors over the past three months as you answer each of the questions that follow on a scale of 1 to 4, "Never" to "Always."  Move the slider to the number that best applies to you. Remember, you don't need to be in a relationship to take this quiz. in fact, building Quantum Love in yourself will attract a wonderful mate into your reality. You may answer the questions with regard to a past relationship or just your general view on relationships.

1 = Never, 2 = Sometimes, 3 = Often, 4 = Always

1.

Sense of Security in My Relationship

I feel secure in my relationship.

1

2. It is easy for me to be present with my partner.

1

3. I find it easy to get attached to my lover(s) in a healthy way.

1

4. I feel I have enough power in my relationship.

1

5. I find it easy to open my heart and be vulnerable in my relationship.

1

6.

Sexual Energy in My Relationship

I prefer spontaneity to predictability in the bedroom.

1

7. I embrace my impulses and desires.

1

8. I enjoy being sexual with my partner.

1

9. I am comfortable expressing myself sexually.

1

10.

My Sense of Love-Worthiness

I feel deserving of love by an available and committed partner.

1

11. I am comfortable being the object of my partner's love and desire.

1

12. I feel confident my partner won't leave me or cheat on me.

1

13. I deserve as much respect as I give in my relationship.

1

14. My partner and I share similar goals for our relationship over the long term.

1

15.

Openheartedness in My Relationship

It comes easily to me to trust and open up to my partner.

1

16. I am comfortable with emotional intimacy.

1

17. I enjoy connection rather than keeping my partner at a distance.

1

18. When we argue I find it easy to be sensitive to my partner's pain.

1

19. I find it easy to be emotionally generous with my partner.

1

20.

Self- Expression in my Relationship

I am comfortable expressing my needs to my partner.

1

21. When necessary, I can be assertive about my needs.

1

22. I communicate well with my partner, balancing talking and listening.

1

23. I am confident and comfortable when telling my partner a difficult truth.

1

24. If I am unhappy about something, I will speak up about it.

1

25.

Intuition about My Relationship

I love to dream about the future with my partner.

1

26. I am aware of what I want in my relationship.

1

27. I am intuitively aware of what my partner needs without having to ask.

1

28. I can sense when my partner is troubled, lying, in danger, etc.

1

29. I know the mood my partner is in the moment he (or she) walks in the room.

1

30.

My Relationship as Part of a Bigger Plan

I understand both my partner and I are part of a higher power.

1

31. I trust my intuition in my relationship.

1

32. I believe my partner is my greatest teacher.

1

33. I recognize the gifts/lessons in the struggles we have together.

1

34. I am aware that our relationship is part of a much bigger plan.

1

 

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