Achieve Your DREAMS… or Just Figure Out Where to Go On Vacation

Digital Marketing, Empowerment, Personal Development
April 1, 2020

The Authentic Wife and Mom

Beth Rowles | The Conscious Marriage Coach

Well, when we can all leave the house again! Coronavirus has us stuck now but there are still plenty of decisions to make. Yesterday I found myself whipping out something I made a while ago – the DREAM process. I was trying to decide whether we needed to invest in devices for the kids instead of giving them our iPads and phones. With virtual learning on the horizon for even my preschooler and kindergartener, plus leaning on devices to help us work from home, we need to do something.

In the end, the process led me to the realization that, RIGHT NOW, I just needed to email her teacher and see if Chromebooks would be provided or not. So for now, that’s our solution. Going through the steps in DREAM helped me figure out what to do right now AND what to do next. It helps me stop impulsive decisions. And it helps me take right action.

Yet the original goal of DREAM was to take a look at each of MY dreams and figure out what to do next. You see, each morning I write down 10+ dreams I have for my life. Mine are:

  1. I’m a paid advisor.
  2. I’m a relationship trailblazer.
  3. I’m a best-selling author on Oprah’s bookshelf.
  4. I’m an MBA grad.
  5. I’m a happy and structured mom.
  6. I’m a generous benefactor.
  7. I live in luxurious, clean spaces (a dream of every mom with young kids, I imagine!)
  8. I have a personal chef and a pool (though lately, I’d be content with just the pool!!)
  9. I can travel and give my kids FUN
  10. I have a just-right body
  11. I’m a beachcomber (beach bum? sunbather?)

But of course, I started with #11, and that’s how our vacation to Myrtle Beach was booked. Though it’s been postponed, I’m so looking forward to spending a few days digging my toes into the sand. My soul let me know it needs regular beach time and that was when I realized I’d been denying it something that’s a part of me for YEARS.

When I pulled DREAM back out yesterday, it dawned on me that I should share it with you! Everyone needs decision support but sometimes you don’t need the full support of a coaching call or you DREAM Process Make a decision achieve your dreams Beth Rowlesneed to make a decision quickly. CLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD THE DREAM PROCESS

XO + All my support during these challenging times,


Beth Rowles
Follow me!


Submit a Comment

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

I'm Beth Rowles, Hi!

I help driven moms use the conflict in their marriage as a feedback loop to grow in self-awareness so they can create the marriage they, and their kids, deserve without leaving the one they're in or waiting for their husband to evolve.

I'm the author of The Authentic Wife: Uncaging Yourself Through Marriage and host of The Authentic Wife Show podcast & YouTube channel.


Recent Posts




Save your marriage from divorce coaching course book Beth Rowles relationship trailblazer. What's your Soul Truth in Marriage?

FREE: The Princess & The Peeve™ Instantly Take Control Of Your Life By Learning What Your Current Emotions Mean

The Princess & The Peeve Emotion Assessment Worksheet

FREE: Get 30 Texts/Scripts to Ask Your Husband for Help Without Getting Resistance

30 Texts to Ask Your Husband for Help Without Starting a Fight

Are You True to Yourself in Your Marriage? Read My Book, The Authentic Wife:

The Authentic Wife: Uncaging Yourself Through Marriage by Beth Rowles

Learn How to Love Your Husband Again, Even If It Feels Like It's Too Late

Love Him Again: A Step-by-Step Guide to Saving Your Marriage by Beth Rowles

6-Month Marriage Coaching Program for Wives Contemplating Divorce

Happily Ever After 6-Month Marriage Coaching Program

"Your partner is ultimately a mirror of how you feel about yourself, and your relationship will call on you to get into integrity with earlier wounds and negative life patterns."

--Dr. Laura Berman, Quantum Love

Love Queen, Enneagram 5, Child Prioritizer, Problem Solver, Book Lover, Authenticity Expert, And Your Marriage Saver

I’m Beth.
Your Authenticity
[to keep it a Family] Coach.

You and your kids deserve a marriage that brings your light to life. That may seem far away right now, but I’m proof that it’s possible and in your power to create! Stop worrying about what your kids are learning from him and let’s figure out what they can learn from you, mama!