Stop Fantasizing. You Are Your Own Knight in Shining Armor.It's Time to Create the Marriage You Want.
Because The Woman Who Knows Her Worth Gets Treated Like Royalty… Without Leaving Her Castle.
Have you outgrown your husband?
Check your personal growth + evolution and see if you’ve really done everything.
Happiness Is Up To You.
I know, because I was where you are now
The drives spent staring out the window. Fighting over spending money again. The anger that boils inside of you when he doesn’t truly see your child or does something unconscious in front of her again. You didn’t spend all this time learning how to be a good parent for it to end up like this. Everything you wanted to protect your kids from seems to sleep next to you at night.
You checked off all the boxes when you met him. He was supposed to be a great dad. And now you can’t even hear his ‘I love you’ over the deafening waves of resentment.
I was at the brink of divorce too. Googling divorce attorneys and crying in the shower, wondering how I messed this up, how I could have done this to my children.
How the hell did the guy I married turn into this?
But I was determined not to put my kids through a divorce, knowing first-hand how it would destroy their life. So I got curious, and I discovered that my husband wasn’t the annoying guy I’d created in my head. He was actually my soul mate all along. My past was creating the annoying guy story — that, and his undiagnosed ADHD. And I was living out the past rather than consciously creating the future.
So if you’re a woman who just wishes you could fix your husband, let’s work together.
You’ve gotten comfortable dancing the same annoying dance with him even though you hate it, but it’s not a new partner you need… it’s a new dance.
You are not alone.
Come join my community of Authentic Awakened Mommas on Facebook.
Hi! I’m Marriage Coach + Family Alchemist Beth Rowles
Joyful, journal-loving, sunshine fan
I want to live in a world where parenting is as much about a healthy marriage as it is about breastmilk vs. formula, where sunshine breaks are mandatory, where luxury is the standard experience, where children’s rights are human rights, and where it’s ok to soften and receive love again.
After my kids were born, my previously “perfect” marriage started to crumble. The sweet guy I married disappeared and was replaced by what felt like my tallest, least helpful child, and my anxiety was through the roof trying to do everything by myself.
But I’m not used to failing. I’m a problem-solver, an Enneagram 5 determined to be capable no matter what. So I researched my heart out and figured out how to fix it.
I saved my marriage without my husband cracking a book or going to a counselor. And I did it by becoming more, not less, authentic.
A passionate Conscious Parenting Expert (with 2 years of training from Dr. Shefali Tsabary), Jai Institute for Parenting Certified Relationship Coach, Suzi Lula Self Care Coach, Practical Reiki Master, and former RF engineer turned relationship trailblazer, I help independent women heal from their past, learn new skills, and embrace their gifts to build their intimate relationships by design.
I believe there’s a fierce energy in all of us that’s unleashed when we’re closest to our soul truth. And we feel resistance when we’re moving away from it.
Think of me as your friendly guide back to you. The real you.
Let’s end divorce culture, together. Come, see what I offer…
“Family dynamics changed with the birth of our second child, and old communication routines that worked brilliantly pre-kids were strained with one child and rendered useless for managing the family and maintaining our marriage with two little people in the house. The day my husband came home and asked me about my day, I knew something was different. Nothing went as planned, the house was a mess, our children hadn’t been the best listeners, my to-do list was less than half done and he got home later than I anticipated, leaving me with more of the pre-bedtime responsibility than usual, but I didn’t say any of that. I’d laughed and played and made the most of my day without being triggered by the things that usually throw shade over my day. Now I have a mental framework to help me understand what I’m up against and language I can use to begin healing myself and defending my relationships from the shadows of fears and frustrations from long ago that creep back into my life through modern triggers in my day-to-day life with my husband, children and even my parents.”
“Before this course it was like we were trying to speak two different languages! Beth offered a unique perspective on the common challenges and hurdles we face in any relationship. She allowed me to take a deeper look at the surface level issues and actually address what was truly going on behind them! My husband and I often had the same end goals but would go about them in different ways which would cause friction, just realizing this as well as having better tools to communicate has helped us get on the same page!”
“One of the things I love about Beth’s work is how detailed and comprehensive she is when explaining situations with our partners and children. Her analogies really helped me understand her concepts and made it easy to remember when in a situation in my relationships. Anyone who works with her in any capacity will learn and grow within themselves. One of the best relationship programs out there, highly recommend all of Beth’s programs.”
“Now I feel like I can participate back in the family again, spend the evening just being with them and not having the rest of this swirling around in my head… When do I talk to him, how do I say it, what is that going to make me feel like… none of that is here now, in this moment I can be present. And all of that power stays with me and I can trust that whatever’s meant to happen will happen.”
“Oh my gosh, everything was useful today. I’m seeing the confidence I’m lacking, I want – I need assurance from people, am I doing right instead of listening to my heart. There are points when I need experts like you, let me make sure is this really truly what I’m feeling, is it the right thing, or maybe I need to change something… thank you for giving me that confidence.”
You’re Right, This Marriage Is Over.
And you’re about to create a new one.
I get it. Preventing my kids from experiencing the same grief I did from my parents’ divorce used to be on my mind every day. That’s why I was relentless in learning how to fix what I didn’t like about the relationship I already had.
I didn’t want my own stuff to ruin my children’s chance at being part of a loving family.
I discovered that I was co-creating (aka, it wasn’t him, it was me too) everything I was experiencing because I had built a relationship based on who I thought everyone else wanted me to be.
I wish someone would have come along and said, “Beth, it’s not him–it’s you. Your childhood wounded you. You’ve never stopped to heal that. You can’t love and be loved when you won’t even take the time to stop and love your own self back to health and heal these wounds you’ve carried for decades.” Because once I realized that, I got the man I married back. I got the real me back. And I got the love I wanted.
I’ve developed The Quantum Love Journey with relationship expert Dr. Laura Berman to help you find your way back to you, know how to be treated the way you’ve always deserved, and create the same level of transformation in your heart and home as I did. Your kids deserve it as much as you did.
I offer the only marriage coaching program that helps you use your relationship as a feedback loop to create the relationship you want in a real and authentic way without leaving the one you’re in: Happily Ever After
Time is Running Out to Show Them How They’ll Create Their Own
Happily Ever After
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