Helping you become the loving family you always wished you had.BETH ROWLES IS THE ONLY MARRIAGE COACH FOR MOMS in difficult marriages WHO WANT TO USE THEIR relationship AS A FEEDBACK LOOP TO heal & grow in self-awareness, so they can CREATE THE family THEY WANT WITHOUT LEAVING THE ONE THEY'RE IN.
Tired of your husband’s bad mood?
Learn how to change it without changing yourself.
Love your husband again in less time than it takes to divorce him.
even if you’ve outgrown him
The drives spent staring out the window. Fighting over spending money again. The anger that boils inside of you when he doesn’t truly see your child or does something unconscious in front of her again. You didn’t spend all this time learning how to be a good parent for it to end up like this. Everything you wanted to protect your kids from seems to sleep next to you at night.
You checked off all the boxes when you met him. He was supposed to be a great dad. And now you can’t even hear his ‘I love you’ over the deafening waves of resentment.
I was at the brink of divorce too. Googling divorce attorneys and crying in the shower, wondering how I messed this up, how I could have done this to my children.
How the hell did the guy I married turn into this?
But I was determined not to put my kids through a divorce, knowing first-hand how it would destroy their life. So I got curious, and I discovered that my husband wasn’t the devil. He was actually my soul mate all along. My past was the devil. And I was living out the past rather than consciously creating the future. And you can learn exactly what I did to save my marriage & fall in love with my husband again, things like…
- Understanding how your inner child is creating conflict in your relationship
- Learning that whatever you think you’re protecting your children from is just an old wound you haven’t faced yet
- Discovering what you really need and how to get it
- Knowing what you want and how to create more of it in your life
- Learning the healthy relationship skills your kids desperately need you to model now, for their success later.
Silence that critical inner inauthentic voice, and take action from your intuition to create the supportive relationship you want (and your kids need) without leaving the marriage you’re in… no matter how he’s being.
I’ll teach you how to use my proven method (designed with relationship expert Dr. Laura Berman, author of Quantum Love), for healthy relationships called
The Quantum Love Journey
and I promise it’s unlike any marriage counseling, family therapy, or other relationship coaching program you’ve ever seen because it corrects the root cause of the problems in your marriage: inauthenticity created by your childhood.
Are you ready to break the cycle?
Choose Your Path:
Happily Ever After is a 6-month private coaching journey that helps you master the 6 skills we cycle through to create exactly the relationship we want, no matter how the other person is acting.
Learn what I call Feminine Asking by using these customizable text or convo templates to ask for help without starting a fight! Great if your husband has ADHD or otherwise resists every request.
Hi! I’m Beth Rowles
Joyful, journal-loving, sunshine fan
I want to live in a world where parenting is as much about a healthy marriage as it is about breastmilk vs. formula, where sunshine breaks are mandatory, where luxury is the standard experience, where children’s rights are human rights, and where it’s ok to soften and receive love again.
After my kids were born, my previously “perfect” marriage started to crumble. The sweet guy I married disappeared and was replaced by what felt like my tallest, least helpful child, and my anxiety was through the roof trying to do everything by myself.
But I’m not used to failing. I’m a problem-solver, an Enneagram 5 determined to be capable no matter what. So I researched my heart out and figured out how to fix it.
I saved my marriage without my husband cracking a book or going to a counselor. And I did it by becoming more, not less, authentic.
A passionate Conscious Parenting Expert (with 2 years of training from Dr. Shefali Tsabary), Jai Institute for Parenting Certified Relationship Coach, Suzi Lula Self Care Coach, Practical Reiki Master, and former RF engineer turned relationship trailblazer, I help wise women learn why they are the way they are, let go of what they don’t like, create the relationships they want, and embrace their gifts to build their intimate relationships by design.
I believe there’s a fierce energy in all of us that’s unleashed when we’re closest to our soul truth. And we feel resistance when we’re moving away from it.
Think of me as your friendly guide back to you. The real you.
Let’s end divorce culture, together. Come, see what I offer…
Feeling Stuck in Your Relationship?
the love you need is on the other side of authenticity, not divorce.
I get it. Preventing my kids from experiencing the same grief I did from my parents’ divorce used to be on my mind every day. That’s why I was relentless in learning how to fix what I didn’t like about the relationship I already had.
I didn’t want my own stuff to ruin my children’s chance at being part of a loving family.
I discovered that I was co-creating (aka, it wasn’t him, it was me too) everything I was experiencing because I had built a relationship based on who I thought everyone else wanted me to be.
I wish someone would have come along and said, “Beth, it’s not him–it’s you. Your childhood wounded you. You’ve never stopped to heal that. You can’t love and be loved when you won’t even take the time to stop and love your own self back to health and heal these wounds you’ve carried for decades.” Because once I realized that, I got the man I married back. I got the real me back. And I got the love I wanted.
I’ve developed The Quantum Love Journey to help you find your way back to you, know how to be treated the way you’ve always deserved, and create the same level of transformation in your heart and home as I did. Your kids deserve it as much as you did.
I offer the only marriage coaching program that helps you use your relationship as a feedback loop to create the relationship you want in a real and authentic way without leaving the one you’re in: Happily Ever After
Time is Running Out to Show Them How to Create Their Own
Happily Ever After
Explore Your Triggers & Heal
Create Change Using Your Energy
Feel Loved, Cared for, And Supported
Learn how to fix rather than Fight
Happily Ever After
A 6-Month Private Coaching Program for Driven Women That Helps You Create the Relationship You Want Without Leaving the One You’re In
Begin to create a new relationship dynamic where:
• Your kids know what love and respect look & feel like
• He doesn’t depend on you to make him feel better/happy (and vice versa)
• There’s no drama about problems or choices – you easily agree on an objective and find the best solution
• You feel seen and understood by him
• He’s happier so your home feels happier
• You never feel held back from a bigger purpose or calling
• You are modeling healthy communication and partnership for your kids
• At the end of the day, he’s your biggest fan
• You feel supported by him
• You spend each day doing more of what you love
• You can tell him how you feel without it becoming a fight
Who Happily Ever After is For
Are you a driven mom who wants to get it right?
This program is best suited for moms in a committed relationship or marriage who are curious and love learning, who practice Positive, Conscious, Gentle, or Attachment Parenting or are still learning about parenting with natural consequences instead of punishment, and women who could be considered personal growth junkies. You might love fun topics like Mindfulness, Child Development, Science, Meditation, Quantum Physics, Psychology, and Emotional Intelligence!
This program is definitely not for anyone in an abusive relationship. It’s not recommended for wives who are unwilling or unable to hold boundaries because they’re currently controlled by their spouse financially (and want to stay that way). It’s also not for couples who have already separated and one or both parties have no interest in saving the relationship. It’s also not for husbands! I only need to work with you to start creating change.
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